Trying to change someone means you don't like them.
If you don't like them, why be with them?
If you are just having sex, cool.
That means you toss her away if she is gets annoying and tries to change you.
You only put up with what you want to put up with.
Accept people how they are or not at all.
Everyone has the right to be themselves.
You have the right to want what you want.
If you want this, this and this for a relationship, cool.
If he or she doesn't fit those requirements: don't get in a relationship with them.
It's not about what they want.
It's about what you want.
It's about your happiness.
Why be in a relationship you know you won't be happy or satisfied in?
My friends crack me.